
WSE
Women's Sensuality Empowerment

Hello!,
Hi, I’m Ashley Barnhardt (RedCloud), WSE's Certified Sensuality Coach. I specialize in helping women overcome personal barriers, reconnect with their sensuality, and awaken a deeper sense of empowerment—so they can step into the fulfilling life they’ve always desired and deserve.
While I’ve been a Certified Sensuality Coach (AKA Sex Coach) and graduate of Sex Coach University since 2020, I am also a midwestern woman with a family and a whole other business to run! My professional journey also includes a long-standing passion for animal care. I am the owner of Daisy Mae’s Dog Salon and Spa in Bloomer, Wisconsin, and have been grooming dogs professionally since 2010.
In addition to coaching and dog grooming, I also have a deep background in performing and instructing erotic dance and offer these classes in my coaching programs. These include beginner pole dance, floor work, and sensual stretch. Dance has always been a powerful outlet for me, and I believe it’s an incredible tool for reconnecting with the body, expressing sensual energy, and building confidence. Watching women tap into their inner erotic dancer and embrace their sensual selves is one of the most rewarding parts of what I do.
Outside of my work, I cherish time spent with family and friends. I am a mother of 3 beautiful daughters and 2 fur friends. I enjoy coffee/cocktail outings with my friends, thrifting with my daughters, and reading spicy novels in my alone time. I’m a spooky soul at heart—I love gothic decor, dark fashion, and celebrating Halloween whenever possible. I also enjoy tending to my vegetable garden in the summer, soaking in the sunshine, and getting creative with crafts when time allows.
Connecting with other women and providing them with professional sensuality practices and accurate sexuality education is my soul's calling. Being able to become a safe space for women to come and express themselves completley, safely, and confidently has been such a gift.
Women have been misinformed for decades about our human sexual rights and how we should or shouldn't use them. It is time we break through those barriers and spread accurate information, and embrace who we are meant to be. It's time for the honest facts to be heard and for us women to team together to build our confidence and voices. Every woman can be sexy, sensual, intelligent, and strong. EVERY SINGLE ONE!!
Why Did I Chose Sex Coaching?
Growing up, I always had a deep curiosity about sex. Like many children, my education was limited to basic anatomy and the message that abstinence was the only acceptable choice until you were “of age” or married. Alongside that, I was exposed to unrealistic and often harmful beliefs about women’s sexuality. I also experienced traumatic sexual experiences throughout my adolescence and young adult life that further shaped my understanding of intimacy, safety, and self-worth.
At just 16 years old, I became pregnant. It was a life-changing moment, and I chose to step into motherhood and raise my now beautiful, grown daughter. As I continued to grow and raise my children, I began to question everything I had been taught about sex, pleasure, and what it meant to be a woman. I knew there had to be a better, more empowering message than the one I had received.
Whether those messages came from society, religion, or simply a lack of proper education, I was determined that my children—and other women—would have access to something better. I wanted them to feel informed, safe, confident, and in control of their own bodies and experiences.
That desire led me on a journey of education and self-discovery. While researching ways to turn this passion into meaningful work, I discovered Sex Coach University. When I found Dr. Patti Britton and her work, I immediately knew I had found my path.
I became certified so I could create a safe, judgment-free space for women and their partners to openly explore their sexual hurdles, desires, and goals. My mission is to provide education, guidance, and personalized support so each client can step into their own version of sensual success.
I truly believe that we only get one life—and we deserve to live it fully, with confidence, connection, and pleasure.
I am here to meet incredible women, hear their stories, and help them rewrite their own narratives. A future rooted in confidence, free from shame, and aligned with their true desires is possible.
Your dream of an amazing intimate life is not out of reach—it starts here. And I am honored to guide you on your journey toward embracing your body, your mind, and your sensual spirit.

My dog Daisy Mae

My World

Just Hangin' with the kids


